MEET THE MATCHMAKER
Your comfort comes first.
First dates take place in public venues. Keep your own transportation options, tell someone you trust where you are going, and leave whenever you want. Do not share a home address through arrival messages.
You can block a member, pause matchmaking or report a concern without explaining or defending your boundaries. Contact exchange stops during an active safety review.
Text “help me exit” or call us if you need support leaving a date. Automated support is not emergency response and human review may not be immediate. In immediate danger, call 911 or ask venue staff/security for help.
Phone verification and age checks reduce some risks; they are not background checks or a guarantee about another person. Private reports are restricted to authorized staff.